Writer's Block: Forgive and forget?
aldimai
Has someone you loved and respected ever done something you consider despicable? If so, how did you deal with it? Did you try to forgive them? Did it permanently change your feelings for them?

Yes, in fact, a few days ago,. If it is that despicable, I try to get in the person's head and find out why that kind of display of hurtful behavior, if possible. Especially someone who has always been close and shown you love and respect.  I 'm dealing with it by forgiving and an attempt to understand. Once  I get a legitimate, rational explanation, it would not shake my feelings. If it happens again and again, then yes it would affect the relationship. I'm liberal enough to forgive and try to forget.

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